Good God! I don’t know. I DON’T KNOW! Ok quick and easy – In the past I believe that some people, by virtue of my perceived confidence and strong personality also assumed that I would not only be willing to engage in a physical fight, but that I would win. I can’t remember how I know this, but I’m pretty sure this has been expressed to me by more than one person… This differs from the person I know myself to be because I’m a lover, not a fighter… sigh.